Despite the fact that women and men are equal, the course of life ends up proving to us that there are some subtle differences, especially in the area of our relationships.
The diversity of perception becomes apparent mainly through communications.
There are literally many times where we feel talking to a wall or even worse, that bonds are broken down and we find ourselves looking for the end of the thread.
Before we become stubborn or get disappointed from making the effort to understand our partner, we can find sonorous answers to the so called “partner decipherment ” very easily, intelligently and painlessly!
In which way?
Further on you can find a few short advices that are worth not to walk away from that easily……

1. He does not pay attention to what we are saying?

We shouldn’t let the 30% increased brain connections related to speech that we possess as women stand in the way of our partner’s praiseworthy effort to watch his favorite TV program (i.e. football…)
Our talent to coordinate our brain functions into two simultaneous conversations may end up being useless or tiresome for our beloved partners who are not able to comprehend it.
So leave the arduous conversations for later!

2. Is he unexplainably introverted sometimes?

All of us have our share to what we call “difficulty” or “unsurpassable obstacles”, some have a bigger share and others have a smaller.
It is there that women again have discovered the golden section to every problem by communicating with their own people (their friends that is…..), whereas man prefers to share his feeling or insecurity and weakness with his best friend, himself that is!
In this point what counts above all is the notorious “body language”, where a miraculous caress, but also a nice chat provides the existing relation with the kiss of life!

3. Where mess prevails…

It has been said that times have changed, but what about understanding?
Clutter is a matter of perception of course, but we have to consider that as entities we haven’t stopped carrying inside us some remains from those ages when we were living in the caves where man as a provider adjusted his perception to open spaces whereas woman as the hearth keeper focused at one point.

If you find yourselves having disharmonious cooperation concerning household, no problem!
You either take care of things on your own, or leave him do it himself!

4. The word “I love you” doesn’t exist in his dictionary?

At this point one can observe the diversity existing in the ways we see relationships and it is at this point again that the safety of any relationship is evaluated in the majority of the cases.
Men feeling their relationship as stable appear more at ease.
Wonder why?
Simply……because their desirable person is near!
Women always are in the quest of something more and the game is being played behind hidden words, while the joy that they could have enjoyed through togetherness is lost very easily

Don’t worry! Sometimes actions are more important than words!

5. Does the word “I am sorry” ring any bells?

Leave aside any hidden guilt and small egos or even better place them inside your “circle of lost… pettiness” and look your partner in the eyes, by giving the example to a healthy liberation to whatever keeps you apart.

Only a small magic word is enough: “I am sorry” !
Give it a try!

One thing is important and do not ever forget it! Let your intuition excel, likewise let your enthusiasm fill in the gaps, sensed by your intuition, in your relation with your partner.
Your intuition as well as your imagination will help you to mark out all those hidden aspects of a continuously changing relationship.
Beyond everything don’t forget that one thing that counts is the tenderness and love we give to our partner.
These two words are the keys which guide us towards decipherment!

Katerina Kostaki
Author-Article writer